Major Congrats! The first is different from all the rest.
With my daughter who was my first I held her before my wife did and I believe to this day a bond gets made in those first moments - for years when she hurt she ran straight to me over her mother. Wasn't the same with my son - my wife held him first.
I got her a 1/16 IH Farmall M when she was 2 (I think) course first thing she did was bite a tire and make a face! Don't believe they made a pink M.
Congrats on your new baby girl. They will change your life!! When we had our first one of my landlords...who was 87 and had 5 girls told me how happy he was for me then he said "that will make a man out of you". At first I was a little offended but now 10 years and two more kids later I see the wisdom in his statement. Have fun...it may not seem like it sometimes but it will go fast.